Angel & Spike & Age Gaps

[NoShip]

I have been spending time on Reddit's r/buffy which is NEVER a good idea. One of the topics being debated is which vamp relationship is "better" or "mature" or "real" etc.

One of the arguments that comes up over and over and over and over is that Bangel is terrible because of the age gap of 220+ years. I agree with that argument.

What I don't get is why Spuffy is not considered terrible for it's 100+ year age gap.

Can anyone explain that?

 

[NotASlayer]

Spike is hot with charm, cheekbones and a cool leather coat.

Really, if any age gap like that is a problem, they all are. Anything else is hypocritical.

Now, if vampires don't really alter once turned, their age when turned is relevant, as are the mores of the time they grew up in.

Also, why do so many immortal vampires hang around schools? Sure, they may look young, but a school is one of the worst places for someone who doesn't age, because it will rapidly become obvious. Just look at how out of place many of the Harry Potter cast looked amongst the children by the end! Homeschooling, or simply pretending to be an adult makes it much easier to blend.