As a Bangel, how do you feel about the inevitable Spuffy ILY?

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Well you can't fix the problem with how Wood was handled without first addressing Buffy's behavior towards Spike. She should've been wary of him or maybe supportive but more distant, rather than taking personal responsibility for him and letting him stay in her basement and all that nonsense. You could almost swap the way Buffy treats Spike with the way she treats Faith, and it would fix most of what makes her frustrating and unsympathetic in S7 (I'm talking about levels of trust, respect and forgiveness, not romantic potential).

So, once Buffy is handling the Spike situation how she actually would have if so many writers hadn't been Team Spike, the stage is set for Wood. Buffy should've been far more supportive of Wood's hatred and desire for revenge. Instead of telling him she'd let Spike kill him if he did that again, she should've told him that even though she understands, he can't punish the soul for what the demon did. Neither of them can.
I agree. One of the problems I find with S7 (and some of S6) is that we no longer really see 'the Buffy of it', as Whedon always claimed to be doing with his storylines.

And there lies the problem, viewers loved Spike as he was so they couldn't fundamentally change him in the way it was done with Angel/Angelus. Being an iconic character sucks.

But Spike kept going as he was. He kept the same hair, clothes, fake accent, humor, victim status...you name it. All the things that make him Spike. And he shouldn't because otherwise the soul is useless and the argument that he deserves a chance because he has a soul, doesn't hold much water.

That's the paradox I have with Spike - the artificial persona is what makes him Spike, so for him to revert to something closer to William would mean we lose the Spike we have come to know. And if he was more remorseful, more William-like, then I'd just be worried that we'd just be seeing a repeat of Angel's journey in some way. At the same time his behaviour with Wood was completely unacceptable; but I agree with @Taaroko above that the key to resolving the issues in LMPTM has more to do with Buffy's characterisation than Spike's. I could buy Spike being an arsehole if they had made it something he has to work to overcome. I can never buy Buffy's behaviour being so completely one-sided.

Angel: You stripped it off the body of a dead slayer.
Spike: Which gives it great sentimental value.

Angel: Sex is not a relationship.
Spike: It is if you do it enough times.

To be fair 'The Girl in Question' is such a ridiculously OOC episode for both characters that I have no choice but to take it as fun crack!fic and nothing more.

As for the 'Destiny' line - to me it just proves that having a soul does not automatically make you a decent person. It's something you have to work at. Just a shame the writers weren't brave enough to risk their fanbase in order to show him really having to work at it.
 
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I could buy Spike being an arsehole if they had made it something he has to work to overcome.
I can't. Souled Spike displayed a cruelty in his dealings with Wood that rivals Angelus. While soulles Spike would hook into your insecurities and use that against you so he could achieve a selfish end, it was usually just wrapped in funny barbs. In S6 with Buffy he was cruel but it wasn't his intend. It's just that he couldn't understand (due to lack of soul) that he was hurting her. But with Wood he deliberately hooked in with the intend to destroy the last good memories Wood had of his mother. I associate that more with Angelus and not Spike.

To be fair 'The Girl in Question' is such a ridiculously OOC episode for both characters that I have no choice but to take it as fun crack!fic and nothing more.
But it's still canon, no matter how fanfic-y. After all the comics are also one giant Spuffy fanfic and they are considered canon by some. You can argue OOC behavior all day long but at the end of the day TGiQ is canon.
 
I can't. Souled Spike displayed a cruelty in his dealings with Wood that rivals Angelus. While soulles Spike would hook into your insecurities and use that against you so he could achieve a selfish end, it was usually just wrapped in funny barbs. In S6 with Buffy he was cruel but it wasn't his intend. It's just that he couldn't understand (due to lack of soul) that he was hurting her. But with Wood he deliberately hooked in with the intend to destroy the last good memories Wood had of his mother. I associate that more with Angelus and not Spike.
Yeah but like you say above, it would be plausible for him to try and cling to his former identity at first like Angel did. Maybe they could have done something with that - so even though his initial remorse is entirely Buffy-focused, his real season-long challenge could have been being forced to confront his past via Wood. Angel tries to continue his soulless behaviour but finds he can't. They could have shown Spike trying to use the 'it was just my nature' argument to avoid having to look really deep, but ultimately failing in that. But anyway, what-ifs don't really help much here because it's not what they gave us in the end. He was just an arsehole. and yeah, it was cruel. Lord knows why the writers decided to do that.

But it's still canon, no matter how fanfic-y. After all the comics are also one giant Spuffy fanfic and they are considered canon by some. You can argue OOC behavior all day long but at the end of the day TGiQ is canon.
But haven't you yourself said before you don't consider the Dawnverse as true BTVS canon? I don't usually disregard what we see on the shows but for TGIQ I tend to make an exception because the entire premise just reaches new levels of ridiculousness. I mean, Angel and Spike don't even remember what colour eyes Buffy has!
 
Yeah but like you say above, it would be plausible for him to try and cling to his former identity at first like Angel did. Maybe they could have done something with that - so even though his initial remorse is entirely Buffy-focused, his real season-long challenge could have been being forced to confront his past via Wood. Angel tries to continue his soulless behaviour but finds he can't. They could have shown Spike trying to use the 'it was just my nature' argument to avoid having to look really deep, but ultimately failing in that. But anyway, what-ifs don't really help much here because it's not what they gave us in the end. He was just an arsehole. and yeah, it was cruel. Lord knows why the writers decided to do that.
Clinging to your former self is one thing, surpassing the douchbaggery of your former self is another. Spike is the Angel story in reverse. They both tried to cling to what they were used to. But where Angel just couldn't get to that level of Angelus' evil, souled Spike surpassed soulles Spike in terms of intentional cruelty to destroy someone.

But haven't you yourself said before you don't consider the Dawnverse as true BTVS canon? I don't usually disregard what we see on the shows but for TGIQ I tend to make an exception because the entire premise just reaches new levels of ridiculousness.
Yeah, but that's how I see post- S4 Buffy because it's the only way for me to make sense of the changes and so forth. But that's me and no one else, for everyone all is canon. And the Dawnverse doesn't affect the Angelverse because it never became a topic there. And TGiQ is in the Angelverse.
 
Clinging to your former self is one thing, surpassing the douchbaggery of your former self is another. Spike is the Angel story in reverse. They both tried to cling to what they were used to. But where Angel just couldn't get to that level of Angelus' evil, souled Spike surpassed soulles Spike in terms of intentional cruelty to destroy someone.

Yeah, just compare the way Spike handles Wood to the way Angel handles Holtz. Angel shows nothing but respect and remorse for what he did to Holtz's family, even when Holtz has him completely at his mercy and is an active threat to baby Connor. Spike could've won that fight against Wood without biting him or saying horrible things about Nikki, and yet Buffy sides with Spike, and the writers seem to intend for the audience to do so as well.
 
Yeah, but that's how I see post- S4 Buffy because it's the only way for me to make sense of the changes and so forth. But that's me and no one else, for everyone all is canon. And the Dawnverse doesn't affect the Angelverse because it never became a topic there. And TGiQ is in the Angelverse.
My point is that if you feel the need to disregard the Dawnverse because you find it so incoherent then I can equally choose to disregard TGIQ because I find it nonsensical as an episode.
 
Yeah, just compare the way Spike handles Wood to the way Angel handles Holtz. Angel shows nothing but respect and remorse for what he did to Holtz's family, even when Holtz has him completely at his mercy and is an active threat to baby Connor. Spike could've won that fight against Wood without biting him or saying horrible things about Nikki, and yet Buffy sides with Spike, and the writers seem to intend for the audience to do so as well.
Which is why I love the Angel/Holtz interactions and find the Spike/Wood one baffling - I don't get why we're supposed to side with Spike there😕
 
It's like the writers forgot that it is possible to present both sides in a conflict in a sympathetic light. Wood is sympathetic because his mother was taken from him as a young boy, and he's finally confronting the demon that did it. Spike is sympathetic because he's got his soul now, and is therefore not responsible for what his demon did to Wood's mother but is forced to live with the first-person memories of killing her all the same. If there was ever a setup to make Spike's surrender of his iconic murder coat acceptable to fans, it was that. But instead, the writers just stomped on Wood as if that would make Spike even more sympathetic. Fail.
 
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Fail indeed
Since I know you just finished reading S11, @Mylie, I'm very curious for your take on Spike this season.

I don’t have much thoughts, he’s basically just there? The writing of the character is very much non-threatening... like based on this season, you’d think he was a freaking cinnamon roll, very far from series Spike. He seems to have lost all personality and is now obsessed with kittens. I don’t know... that’s the feeling I had reading this season.

And I wish they’d stop making him call Buffy « slayer ». That’s my comics spuffy pet peeve I’d say. It just sounds like he sees her as being the slayer before being Buffy and I hate it!!!! That’s mostly what I take from this season when it comes to Spike. I don’t really have strong feelings on the rest.
 
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Cinnamon roll LOL and also yummy
I don’t have much thoughts, he’s basically just there? The writing of the character is very much non-threatening... like based on this season, you’d think he was a freaking cinnamon roll, very far from series Spike. He seems to have lost all personality and is now obsessed with kittens. I don’t know... that’s the feeling I had reading this season.

Yeah, I agree that his character seems to have changed a lot. I guess I was thinking about it based on @Taaroko's post.

Spike is arrogant, self-absorbed, entitled, and largely devoid of compassion. Characters like that must never be permitted to get what they want until their egos have been stripped away through repeated hardship, they recognize that they have been the engineers of their own misery instead of the innocent victims, and they acknowledge the validity of other people's feelings.

I guess the way they are writing Spike now, he seems to have fulfilled some of these conditions? Or at least, he seems compassionate and selfless now, but I'm less sure how he got there. I guess it was a hardship for him to not be in a relationship with Buffy from S7 through mid-S10. Is he different because he doesn't want to screw things up with Buffy, or has he really changed? I don't know.
 
Yeah, meeting those conditions has to come through clear effort. That type of character is either broken and destroyed by the obstacles that humble them or they grow as people and reassess their lives. From what I've heard about Spike in the comics, it's more like he just got a personality transplant than that he gained a new perspective as the result of trials and suffering. Oh, and Wes is another Buffyverse character with that personality type, who was repeatedly and often rather brutally humbled for his entire run. In his case, I believe he got more of it than was necessary, but it's still one of my favorite character arcs on television.
 
And I wish they’d stop making him call Buffy « slayer ». That’s my comics spuffy pet peeve I’d say. It just sounds like he sees her as being the slayer before being Buffy and I hate it!!!!
But that's Spike. Spike was obsessed with slayers. He was after an equal demon. He wasn't after the individual human part. Because why would you when you are all demonic and soulless. Does he know Buffy's favorite color/ice cream/movie etc.? Does he know about her ice-scating escape (if this is still true in the Dawnverse)? <or her childhood in general? Does he even care to know? Nope, cause it's the demon he is after, the slayer part.

PS: Going off of my knowledge from the show only and even S7 soulful Spike didn't seem terribly interested to get to know the girl.
 
But that's Spike. Spike was obsessed with slayers. He was after an equal demon. He wasn't after the individual human part. Because why would you when you are all demonic and soulless. Does he know Buffy's favorite color/ice cream/movie etc.? Does he know about her ice-scating escape (if this is still true in the Dawnverse)? <or her childhood in general? Does he even care to know? Nope, cause it's the demon he is after, the slayer part.

PS: Going off of my knowledge from the show only and even S7 soulful Spike didn't seem terribly interested to get to know the girl.

Dang, that's really true, isn't it? He never tries to get to know her. How messed up is that ship that something so basic as whether or not he likes her for her and has common interests with her outside of the supernatural world gets lost in the flood of everything else wrong?
 
But that's Spike. Spike was obsessed with slayers. He was after an equal demon. He wasn't after the individual human part. Because why would you when you are all demonic and soulless. Does he know Buffy's favorite color/ice cream/movie etc.? Does he know about her ice-scating escape (if this is still true in the Dawnverse)? <or her childhood in general? Does he even care to know? Nope, cause it's the demon he is after, the slayer part.

PS: Going off of my knowledge from the show only and even S7 soulful Spike didn't seem terribly interested to get to know the girl.

Yeah, it’s definitely in character but it still irritates me. It’s not the worse thing ever but it happens pretty much in every issue (I honestly don’t remember him calling her Buffy once this season...) and I’m having trouble ignoring it and letting go so it piles up. But I’m feeling better after letting it out now that I’ve finished the season!! 🙂

But it’s okay, maybe I should just do a gifset of Angel saying Buffy’s name (like I did for Angel’s name), that’d be therapeutic lol
 
Yeah, it’s definitely in character but it still irritates me. It’s not the worse thing ever but it happens pretty much in every issue (I honestly don’t remember him calling her Buffy once this season...) and I’m having trouble ignoring it and letting go so it piles up. But I’m feeling better after letting it out now that I’ve finished the season!! 🙂

But it’s okay, maybe I should just do a gifset of Angel saying Buffy’s name (like I did for Angel’s name), that’d be therapeutic lol
Maybe Spike just doesn't remember her name?
 
Mylie
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It's a really sharp contrast to the way when Buffy and Angel first see each other in a room, they forgo so much as "hellos" and simply say each other's names, and the rest of the world falls away.
I thought they first saw each other when Angel was creeping on her in the alley. When was the room scene?
 
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