BuffyBot22
Scooby
This thread kinda spiraled quickly, didn't it?
I'm with @thetopher on this one. Even though I wasn't around in 'those days' I went through the cemetery threads when I first joined last year and saw the evidence for myself.
Also, while I would never speak for my former Spuffy board-mates, my memory tells me they left due to the changes in the shipping forums; they didn't feel like they had a safe place to discuss their favorite romance. Now maybe part of that was because they got vitriol in return from some members, but I just maybe don't think it's fair to claim that you know exactly why these people left.
I'm not sure why they felt that way, unless us Bangels were invading the Spuffy forum. However, I know a lot of Spuffies were invading the Bangel forum and made it very uncomfortable for us Bangels. I don't mind debating Bangel and their flaws with non-shippers or Spuffy fans, but I should not have to constantly defend Bangel in a place that was a safe place and I believe that for the Spuffies as well! I never invaded their forums unless it was to say something nice or share a lovely video of Spuffy. So I apologize as a Bangel if they left due to Bangels invading their forum because that is not right at all! But, I don't remember that being problem, but then again I don't lurk in the Spuffy forum since I know I can't comment anyways.
TriBel
"So I apologize as a Bangel if they left due to Bangels invading their forum because that is not right at all!" No need for the apology - that wasn't why they left. :)
Buffy Summers
I can promise you that Bangels had not invaded their forum, because I monitored every post in those forums from the time we announced the "change" until well after that group left and there was no issue.
