As Cordelia's supporter I am curious to know what you guys would say:
@PaulParmar1 @ChaseRules @Cordy_Chase
Warning: Please bear with me, I've not rewatched this area and therefore have a limited recall but here I go:
I suddenly see it from a psychological angle.
It was in that final moment of WITW when Angel started to propose that step in their relationship after she felt violated by the haunted ballet dressing room that she had some form of subconscious breakdown that set her character off balance.
Dismissing Angel mid-conversation to fling herself into Groo's arms and proceeding to ignore/distance herself from him while turning Groo into a self-pleasing sex doll was a regression to her Queen C persona. If the fact that she made Groo who happens to be another champion up to be Angel's Pylean clone is any indication, this came from a subconscious fear of her feelings for Angel and was supplementing a safer, as in curse-free, version.
Ironic that I am referred to as a supporter because I hated this behavior. My heart broke for Angel In 'Couplet', as he watched pained and forlorn while Groo got to be the hero,
Cordelia's hero and receive that 'Reptile Boy'-esque glomp embrace that's supposed to be his.
That vacation was the last straw, I get the reason both went that route, to escape from temptation and pain at least for a bit but it was still idiotic! I digress.
Now, post-vacation is where we have the saint period and it is a deeper disassociation.
Here, Cordelia's behavior teeters the scale in the other direction.
She more or less went into a state of emotional shock in response to Connor's kidnapping and out of guilt overly concentrated on everyone but herself.
This meaning how she didn't let herself feel Connor's loss personally (whether or not you choose to see her as Connor's surrogate mother she loved him but Connor does in ATF) and was indifferent towards Wesley down to dismissing their history and sibling-esque closeness to devote all her focus to doting on Angel, the secondary victum.
It's not until 'The Price' when she opens up to Angel that she feels responsible for not being there.
Then there was that whole cleansing thing with teenage Connor. That downright sounded like Jasmine had already come to Cordy-town.
Let's also notice how her fashion sense is suddenly OOC and bad. She frumpily and house-wife-esque. Not to mention that horrible bedsheet she wore in 'Tomorrow' and that hair, ugh (Charisma is gorgeous but that hair was just so wrong)! This is Cordelia Chase!
This might have been self-punishment. It's common for one feeling guilt to settle for less than their abilities/potential.
In relation to the teenage Connor thing, the popular theory is that Jasmine's influence was already present in Cordelia, that it was her powers/essence that she was given in 'Birthday' and furthermore that the so-called "cleansing' is actually what planted Jasmine's seed of disillusion in Connor.
I, personally, can NOT get on board with that because it doesn't match the specific revelation in 'Inside Out' that Jasmine's control started with Lorne's antidote in 'Spin the Bottle'. Then again most of the reveals in 'Inside Out' are questionable because Skip was a liar/deceiver and Jasmine an exaggerator.
It's tragic that Cordelia's character isn't righted again until 'You're Welcome', until she dies. :'(