Spuffy AND Bangel!

[MarieVampSlayer]

Hi all!

So I might be the only one but I do love Spuffy and Bangel. I feel like Buffy needed both Angel and Spike in her life and that she can love them both in different ways. Is there anyone else who agree? Can Buffy love them both and not decide who she wants to be with forever?

Please no Spuffy/Bangel war just let me know what you think 🙂

 

[GoSpuffy]

There is no way this thread is not going to turn into a shipping war but good luck lol.

I think Buffy has to choose because that's the kind of woman she is. She would be riddled with guilt if she was stringing along two guys and couldn't make up her mind.

 

[Puppet]

There is no way this thread is not going to turn into a shipping war but good luck lol.

I think Buffy has to choose because that's the kind of woman she is. She would be riddled with guilt if she was stringing along two guys and couldn't make up her mind.

But I don't think the OP means stringing along, more like she enjoys each pairing at the time it happens on screen and/or in the comics. At least, that's what I took from it 🙂

 

[MarieVampSlayer]

But I don't think the OP means stringing along, more like she enjoys each pairing at the time it happens on screen and/or in the comics. At least, that's what I took from it 🙂

Yes exactly this!

 

[Bop]

I don't agree as such but I think the way you worded your opinion was really beautiful!

 

[GoSpuffy]

hmm, seems to me she kind of has this now. She and Angel are friends. She and Spike are in a relationship. I think she still has love for Angel, just not romantic love. She seemed to care about his feeling in S10 when she told Angel that she and Spike were together, that shows concern for him.

 

[WillowFromBuffy]

I am a Bangler when I watch the early seasons and a Spuffyist when I watch the later seasons.

I may be the biggest BtVS fan on here in the sense that there is not a single character, relationship, story line or episode that I don't like.

 

[Antho]

Even if I'm considered myself as a Bangel shipper, I don't hate Spuffy ! I even like Spuffy and absolutely LOVE some moments between them. So why in the end I say I'm Bangel ? It's because of the characters involve in the relationships. I do prefer Angel over Spike because Angel is me, not 100% me but I often see myself on him. The way he talks, the way he acts, the decisions he has made, the reasons that pushed him to act as he did, I have a tendancy to always being agree with him because I think that in the same situations I would do and say the same thing than him. Spike and I are different, I love him, sure he has qualities and he definitely deserves some love but I don't see myself in him, we are different ! That's not a bad thing, it's just means that I don't understand him like I do with Angel and maybe I'm more exigent, dunno !
Plus part of me is ashamed to admit it but I'm a sucker for romance, give me a forbidden love, give me sexual tension, give me strong feelings, give me an handsome man and a beautiful girl and the hormones do the rest ^^.
I even kinda appreciate........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................twilight.

Now, I feel bad, I refuse to look at you again.. I'm just going to do what you all probably think now :

I will never come back

 

[WillowFromBuffy]

I am more shocked you like Drake.

 

[flow]

So I might be the only one but I do love Spuffy and Bangel. I feel like Buffy needed both Angel and Spike in her life and that she can love them both in different ways. Is there anyone else who agree? Can Buffy love them both and not decide who she wants to be with forever?

No, I don`t think, you are the only one. Maybe you could start a new ship. The combined Bangel/Spuffy ship, where we all love, what Buffy loves 🙂

I actually do like Bangel. It is a very important part of Buffys life. I wouldn`t go as far, as calling myself a Bangel, even when I watch the first three seasons. But I acknowledge, that Buffy does love Angel in a very deep and true way.

I don`t think she can be with both of them at the same time. Just because I think, she is not polyamorous. But she can of course love each of them without one love being diminished or belittled by the fact, that she loves the other one as well.

I may be the biggest BtVS fan on here in the sense that there is not a single character, relationship, story line or episode that I don't like.

At least you beat ME there, because I still don`t like Restless ;-) Who is Drake ?

flow

 

[Mrs Gordo]

I may be the biggest BtVS fan on here in the sense that there is not a single character, relationship,

Scott Hope....?

 

[Fool for Buffy]

I never would ship Bangel but that doesn't mean I don't love them. Kinda the opposite of @Antho in that sense.

 

[Mrs Gordo]

I even kinda appreciate........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................twilight.

Like the comic arc or the Edward Cullen story?
 

I never would ship Bangel but that doesn't mean I don't love them. Kinda the opposite of @Antho in that sense.

 

[WillowFromBuffy]

Scott Hope....?

I think he worked. Total anti Angel. I don't think I get why people hate him so much. Of course, there is the Holden Webster reveal, but that was long after the fact.

@Fool for Buffy I think they could have resolved the Parker storyline differently. Otherwise, I think he was fine.

 

[Antho]

I am more shocked you like Drake.

In fact I'm not a fan of him but this gif was exactly what I was looking for 😉

Like the comic arc or the Edward Cullen story?

Euhh...................... Both... Sorry I woudn't try to defend the movies, it's a desesparate case and so do I 🙁

 

[Anyanka Bunny Slayer]

I see it this way...Buffy met Angel when she was a 16 year old virgin; he was her first, rather like training wheels on a bicycle. I guess what I'm saying is Buffy was naive about love/sex, and Angel taught her a bit about both.

But, like a child who has mastered riding a bicycle, she removed the training wheels with Spike; thereby enjoying a new level of passion and intimacy.

 

[buffy1990]

I ship Spuffy in later years, but I absolutely love Angel and Buffy together and I'm glad they had their story. I think Buffy will always love him, but that doesn't mean she has to spend the remainder of her days with him, or that she can't go on to love others. All of Buffy's relationships had a place in her life and shaped her to be who she is. Heck, I even like Riley!

So, yes, I'm all for the Bangel and Spuffy love!

 

[Antho]

I may be the biggest BtVS fan on here in the sense that there is not a single character, relationship, story line or episode that I don't like.

That’s not true.. you hate Giles. You have told me that, once

 

[WillowFromBuffy]

That’s not true.. you hate Giles. You have told me that, once

I don't think he is a particularly good person, but I enjoy him as a character.

 

[Skanky Vamp]

Scott Hope....?

I like the Parker relationship but Hope just felt wrong. Just too saccharine. I so wanted him to be bad, or... die. I saw nothing of value in that character at all and it really was not needed.